Narcissistic daughters are tyrants--some by the time they are five
years old or younger. Most people don't believe this but it is true. I
have seen it numerous times and heard life stories about these tiny
tyrants reigning terror on the family. In some instances the mother is a
narcissist and, believing that her daughter is super special and
perfect, provides her with a no limits environment. She is never told
"No" to anything that she does or says. She runs with her impulses. She
hits, kicks, screams, intimidates, plays games, accuses, tantrums, etc.
whenever she feels the urge--which is often. Dad is controlled by
narcissistic mom. He is like another child. The sorry state of brothers
and sisters in this household is very painful to behold. When siblings
hear the voice of this tiny fiend they run for cover. She lies,
connives, plots and plans against them all of the time. She gets what she wants
all of the time. She doesn't get into trouble because there are no real
parents to correct her and show her a different way of behaving and
thinking. She doesn't learn what is right and wrong from her parents.
She never develops empathy.
As they grow these narcissistic
daughters become more demanding, manipulative, scheming, psychologically
lethal. Narcissistic mother proudly announces: . "My daughter is a
force of Nature."---an ugly, catastrophic, destructive one. .
These
daughters create havoc in the lives of their siblings indefinitely.
Eventually, some family members realize that they can no longer deal
with this level of abuse. Some research the attributes of the
narcissistic personality and recognize they are reading about their
tyrannical narcissistic sister. They now know what happened when they
were growing up. They were the scapegoats, the worriers, the anxious
ones, the forgotten, the ones who were tricked into taking the blame
for anything that went wrong. How unjust to say the least.
Knowing
this truth, you have the power to disengage completely from your
narcissistic sister. This can be complex but realize that this sick
sibling is not going to change.
Move forward with your own life.
Appreciate your authenticity, your empathy, your creative gifts and your
individuality. Give yourself time to heal.
Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D.
Book: Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life AVAILABLE AT AMAZON
Telephone Consultation: United States and International
Email: lmlphd@thenarcissistinyourlife.com
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