Friday, September 17, 2010

Narcissistic Men Denigrate Women

Narcissistic men are gifted seducers, magnetizing women to them so smoothly and easily. Narcissistic men are often physically attractive, bright, socially adroit and very self confident.  Male narcissists both despise and  fear women. They are incapable of loving them. One classic pattern begins with the narcissistic mother who chooses one son as her perfect puppet, a reflection of her perfection. Her little darling is picked to be the mother's psychological partner. The father is out of the picture. For this budding narcissist, there are no behavioral limits, no need for conscience, no rules. Everything is perfect as long as mother approves. Narcissistic men grow to be false selves. They are all image. They cannot be true to themselves or anyone else. Male narcissists denigrate women because they are unconsciously projecting their feelings of helplessness and rage felt toward mother on to their spouses. The narcissistic mother has psychologically emasculated her son. To protect yourself from marrying a narcissistic man, research and study the narcissistic personality disorder. Visit my website:

Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D.
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